Believe in Yourself 

I recently read a saying. It says “believe in yourself”.I was really impressed reading this.
What does this actually mean.
Lets try to figure this out.
BELIEVE . What does this word mean…?
So I browsed its meaning on Google..
And it said “to accept something without any proof”.
Trust is one of its synonym.
The other meaning of the word believe is to hold an opinion or to think .
Soo?
Which meaning of the word believe is more apt in the saying believe in yourself?
I think the first one…
So it goes like this..trust yourself.
So we read a saying “Believe in yourself” now the question arises why , why you should believe in yourself?
Okay now lets assume you need to start-up a business in a group, you really have great plans and ideas for that but you are not confident on your plans and you hear other’s opinions too but you think somewhere, that your idea for starting up the business will be more successful but you yourself aren’t confident then why do you expect others to like your plan?
Do you get the idea?
You expect others to like your plan you want your ideas to be used in starting up the business but you yourself don’t believe or trust your ideas.
How foolish is that!
People’s reality “I want someone to love me , to believe in me, I want to feel wanted ” but I don’t love myself , I don’t believe in myself, I don’t value myself but I want others to show me my importance , I expect others to love me though I don’t love myself..
Hugh! How foolish can people be !
You want to feel wanted , you want to be loved then only one person can do that and that one person in YOU!
Get that clear!
God has made everyone unique and everyone is a masterpiece of god !
When god believes in you , your creator believes in you then why can’t you?
There’s this another saying “Don’t chase people”
Now again why ? Why we should not chase people?
Again as I said God has created everyone unique each and every one of you is His masterpiece.
If you already being His masterpiece are copying one of his’ other masterpeice then what’s the purpose of you being one of his masterpeice?!
Are you getting this!?
Stop chasing people!
Have faith in yourself!
FAITH is another synonym for the word believe !
So from now on start believing in yourself and stop chasing people.
Believe in yourself does not mean just to believe in your thoughts and ideas but also to believe and trust all those things you choose for yourself in life, cause its YOU who chose that to be in your life.
Whatever that ” that” may be…whether your life partner, your decisions or anything.
No one is going to tell you what to choose because you are your own decision maker.
So take stands and choose for yourself and believe in your choices. Take advises, no one has stopped you from doing that but the final choice or decision should be yours because no one is responsible for your happiness , its you yourself responsible for your own happiness.
“You yourself are responsible for your own happiness” makes everything so clear and straight. YOU yourself are responsible , care taker of the happiness that’s yours.
You take care of your belongings. Right?
You take care of yourself . Right?
You take care of everything that’s yours . Right?
So happiness is also all yours so you yourself should take care of your happiness.
Don’t depend on others to make you happy because everyone is busy in creating their own happiness..

Saloni Bagga

MAYBE….

Maybe.
Maybe there is some other universe out there.
Maybe whatever’s happening with us in this  moment has already occurred in some other universe.
Maybe there is another you somewhere..who is sending you signals at every point of time..which we call intuitions.
Maybe,like we have created a virtual world which we call video games..but the characters in the video game don’t know that they have been created by us and that they are under some control..maybe we are also in a virtual world..and some one out there is the controller…somewhere someone has created this game and we are calling it our universe.
Maybe there is a parallel universe which can never meet our so-called universe but something connects two parallels! Yes a transversal.
Maybe all the signals, intuitions, feelings travel through this transversal.
The concepts, the sayings, the quotes like
“What’s meant to be will find its way”
“Everything is possible”
“Change is permanent”
Where did all these sayings come from? There might be some source from where we get some signal and we make out a concept out of that..
Maybe the concepts like” evolution”
“Survival of the fittest” etc are just the rules of the game which we are in, and we are just getting familiar with them gradually.
Maybe some concepts like “opposites attract” are all self-made because there are all kinds of humans who have their own choices and can feel attracted to anyone. Maybe we are just using our artificial intelligence gifted by our creator to know the rules which are already there, and to create our own.
“everything is possible” maybe because it’s already tried and tested in the other universe.
There are many unexplained concepts but we know they are there, like the deja vu we experience.We feel this has already occurred,we have experience this earlier too…
Maybe deja vu are just memories of our other form.
If we could explain the unexplained.
If we could answer the unanswerable.
Maybe then would be the time we will get to know our creator.
Maybe we our living in a virtual reality and we are creating more and more virtual realities and the players of each virtual reality are calling it their own universe.
There is a lot that could be.
A lot.
Who knows?!
Everything and anything is possible…
Maybe all these maybe are not meant to have a “may”.
This all could be true? What do you think?
Are we really living in a virtual reality?
And all the inventions are just re discoveries ?
Crazy!
Isn’t it..
But if we have the power to think anything then why waste time on thinking the obvious?
Use your “artificial intelligence”(if there is any) to think crazy..
Clueless. We. Are.

Saloni Bagga

Creator VS Religion

I don’t know whether God is there or not. But just think, who created you, who created this world. We definitely have a Creator. Idea of God is not wrong, I believe, because it just gives you knowledge that yes you were created by him . But having something called Religion which is just contributing in provoking someone to kill his fellow countrymen. That’s definitely not the reason we were created then why are we getting into this? Why is something called Communal Rights more usual to hear than World Peace?

Just pause for a moment, and think. Your Creator is not same as Religion. Worship your Creator but don’t let your Religion rule you to such an extent that you start taking someone else’s life. Your Creator doesn’t permit you that.

Ayesha Malhotra

Want to walk down the success ramp?
Then work for it because,
You are no Aladdin who has the magic lamp.

Saloni Bagga

Mind Your Mind

Think of a 5 year old kid…
The kid either has the option of playing video games all day long or he has the option to study for the exam.
What according to you the kid will choose?
The kid will obviously choose the first option , that is playing video games rather than studying…right?
Now who is going to make him understand that what is right and what is wrong for him,how will he understand the difference between all the wrongs and all the rights?
Maybe his mother can make him understand the difference between rights and wrongs and maybe she is the one who will make him learn about how to make the right choice…right?
So now think of this 5 year old as your mind and his mother as your brain…
Now take any situation where you have to make a choice.
Your mind will always tell you to choose what makes you happy at that moment it will make you choose what gives you momentary pleasures, but if you want to be happy in the long run then you need to bring your brain in between.
Your brain is going to show you the right path.
Your mind is built up of experiences…
If you once had failure in doing something and you have it in front of you once again then your mind is always going to tell you to run from that situation because your mind just wants happy experiences.

Saloni Bagga

Be Your Own Boss

Something or someone always occupy your mind..maybe because that person or that thing is the reason for that arc below your nose which causes crinkles by your eyes or the arc which causes tears to fall from your eyes but whatever or whoever it is, don’t let anyone control your mind.
Mind is the most powerful thing you have,
Mind causes you to feel , it’s your faculty to think and imagine, it in turn determines your attitude and actions, and your actions determine who you are. In short the person or the thing in your mind determines who you are !
So? Do you really need some other person or thing to tell the world about you?
Think !

Saloni Bagga

Birth Of Blue

You bought three shirts !
One is sky blue in colour, other is navy blue and the third one is ocean blue…
But ultimately they all are shades of blue.
For you all three are the shades of blue , every shade is unique and different from each other, but all three exist because of blue.
Think of yourself as any of the  shade of blue and the ultimate colour blue as your creator or you might say god..
We all are different shades but ultimately we all belong to that ultimate colour from where we have come.

Saloni Bagga

Avenue Of Success

You want to grow a tree…
“How are you gonna do that?”
“Oh this is such a silly question , I will sow a seed and one day it will turn into a tree.”
“Okay,nice answer, but are you 100% sure that you can grow a tree just by sowing the seed?”
“No just sowing the seed is not enough, we will have to water it everyday and take good care of it , nurture it then only it will grow into a tree,this is so very obvious.”
“Yes right this is so obvious.”
Now think of your faith as the seed and watering it as the action or you might say your hard work.
Did you get this?
Yes right!
If you want to achieve something in life then just your faith will not be sufficient your hard work, your determination , your will power, are all equally important.
“Faith and action both are equally important for your success.”

Saloni Bagga

The Dislodged Indigents

Dear Diary,

Every day in every corner of the world, millions of people die, blood of innocents is shed. Terrorism is ruling several parts of the world. Many are deprived of basic human rights they are entitled to. The world is in distress. A part of my heart breaks each time I see the brutalities and callous behavior of a human towards his fellow human beings.

Adding to this ailing conditions are the sufferings of internally displaced people. I think being thrown out of my own house will be my biggest and probably the most bloodcurdling nightmare ever. Internally displaced people spend their lives in a condition thinking of which gives me goose bumps. They aren’t provided with basic requirements like medical aids, food, shelter, education. I wonder how miserable the world will be in coming years if education is not provided to the children today. After all, it’s the children of today which are responsible for the prosperity of the world in the coming years.

I wish for a world which is not referred to as ‘devastated’. I wish for a world where every human’s rights are protected and secured, a world which believes in ‘peace’.

The world is in ruins. And while sitting in Human Rights Council, I realized that it’s our very own responsibility to keep it intact. Peace or Pieces- it’s our choice.

Yours Truly,

Ayesha Malhotra

Discover Your Destiny

​”We are afraid to leave the safe harbor of the familiar and the known.”

Yes, we have this fear. You, me and I am sure that most of us live with this fear. We don’t want to leave this place full of familiar things. We are scared to walk out of the familiar crowd. We are fearful about facing the unknown.

But tell me one thing, is the purpose of the birth of each one of us same?

The answer is NO.

We all are created maybe with the same love and dedication of the creator but the purpose of creating me is definitely different from the purpose of creating you. Hence we cannot have the same ways. For different destinations, we need to choose different roads.

To fulfill the purpose, we need to stand out of the crowd, choose a road to our destination which maybe different from the rest of the group

You have to gather enough courage to step out of the crowd of the known, drift away from that safe harbor and do what’s right for you as an individual to achieve the purpose, the goals of your respective lives.

Life isn’t about being same as so and so great and successful person of your field. It’s all about leaving the familiar, overcoming the fears, meeting the unknown, discovering new places, maintaining your individuality and originality and doing each and everything possible to discover your true potential…your true destiny..the actual purpose of your life. 

Always remember that you are here for a purpose and whatever is happening to you and whatever has happened to you is just to fulfill that purpose. 

Don’t ever fear to loose the sight of the safe harbor because to reach somewhere you need to overcome different levels of difficulty and if you have cleared a level (a familiar and safe place), you need to step out of it to reach the next one.

Ayesha Malhotra